You will discover there are many ways in which you can whip up your man into a sexual frenzy.īut I am not through with you yet! Before you run off, let’s talk about some of the underlying science that speaks to this topic. If you like what you found here in this post, then go read more of my articles. The act of asking the question, over and over, sometimes can help you find new and creative answers. Often we can get locked into one way of doing things, unless we challenge ourselves to expand our knowledge and experiences. I always like to find new ways to ask the same question. But if you must know, “black” works as well. Wearing red, for example, can suggest your readiness, which in turn gets your husband or boyfriend aroused.īut we are not here to simply talk about the influence colors have on your man’s mood. What Else Can You Do To Stimulate Arousal?Ĭertain colors can be highly arousing to a man. It starts in the mind as a sliver of a thought. This is how arousal in your man takes shape. If he responds back for clarification, wait an hour and then send him a pic of something that is mildly suggestive. Or, you could say, “ let’s color outside of the lines when you get home tonight“. You could say, “ honey, when you get home, I want us to talk about getting very naughty tonight”. Or, you could slip him an envelope for him to discover later. You could for example, an hour before he comes home from work, send him a somewhat cryptic text. If you are very sly and a tad bit naughty, you can paint a masterpiece of arousal. Less is more.Īllow your husband (or boyfriend) to try and fill in the blanks with his own imagination. But for now, let’s explore ways in which you can capitalize on his fantasies. Later we will talk more about why your man thinks this way.
You can leverage those thoughts.Īnd if he believes that you too might be thinking about exploring the edges of the “ forbidden zone“, that notion can be very exciting to him. Of course, it need not be quite that way, but thinking in those terms excites your man. It is like a call to his “primal” self where he thinks in terms of a raw, sweaty, wild and exhilarating sexual encounter. Just him focusing on such thoughts can stir up arousal. I will often tell some of my female clients, “ look, you need to try some things you have not done before, but you also need to use a bit of psychology.”Ī man sometimes thinks about having sexual encounters with his wife that just might take them to the edge of the Forbidden Zone. It can be very stimulating for both the husband and wife if you are open to exploring new sexual encounters (with each other) and experiences. We will come back to this theme a little later.īut let’s get on with your man’s most primal of desires. Women feel stimulated when they know their man is highly stimulated and vice versa. Perhaps we should call this section of the post, “ arousing the beast in your man“! Arousing Your Man By Taking Him to The Forbidden Zone So, whether your guy is your husband who is complaining of being bored or a boyfriend that needs a bit more satisfying….we will tackle the topic head on.
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Then after we travel through this Land where arousal is foremost on the mind of your man, I will walk you through some other very important insights.Īfter all, you came here looking for advice on how to arouse your man.
For example, if you wish, you can check out my latest post on the subject.īut today, you are really in luck because first we are going to take you down the path of the Forbidden Zone.
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That is why I have written a 4 post series on this topic. There is much more involved when we are dealing with the relationship arousal equation. Help me?”Īs you can see from these questions, women are dying to know that else they can do to keep their man happy, even thrilled.Īh….but the answer to how one facilitates arousal is really not such a simple topic.Īnd it is not always what the woman does for her husband or boyfriend to create arousal. I have tried everything and feel like I must be doing something wrong. “Chris, my husband says I don’t do enough to arouse him. “I am ready to explore the wild side with my boyfriend, but where do I start? “ Chris, what can I do to really get my man aroused?” I often get queries from my female clients he ask me things like: Guides / Questions How To Arouse a Man – A Guide For WomenĪrousing your man sometimes involves getting creative and exploring the edges of the forbidden zone.īut it is true.